Judge

'None of you will truly believe until you love for your brother what you love for yourself'

-Bukhari AlMuslim

Don't feel sad seeing someone smiling. Perhaps they are smiling through thousands of pains

Don't feel upset seeing a successful marriage. Perhaps they are trying hard to beat the odds in their lives.

Don't feel sad seeing others having kids. Perhaps they are sacrificing a lot to protect what they are only blessed with.

Don't feel upset seeing someone spending their leisure with joy. Perhaps that's the only break they had for themselves.

Don't feel annoyed hearing someone's laughter. Perhaps that's the only way for them to break the silence.

We don't know what happens behind curtains. Perhaps those people who try to show their smiles o the world don't want to make others cry for them

We don't know the trials they are facing with, so don't judge that they are showing off

We can't spend a hidden life. Our joys and sorrows will be identified by the world.

No one can hide a child they have fearing that it could hurt someone who doesn't have a child

No once can hide their wealth because someone else would hurt for not being blessed with wealth

No one can pretend to be sic knowing there could be someone suffering with an illness

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Everyone has their own package of trials. 

None can live for someone else's sake

They have to live the life they are assigned with

Pretending to live a life that they are not truly living is showing off

Besides their deeds are known by Allah alone.

Sharing happiness with others is not wrong

intending to inspire others is not a crime

Our duty is not to judge their deeds but to bless them to live happily forever

We might feel offended sometimes seeing someone screaming with joy while we are grieving for a loss

Just because we are sad it is not right to expect everyone to mourn

If we are expecting others to be sad along with us, then we must get prepared to be happy with ohters as well. 

That is the true spirit of a Muslim

'None of you will truly believe until you love for your brother what you love for yourself'

What Country in the World Best Fits Your Personality?

Nina sent me a link for fun today, just to test which country fits my personality, hehe

but before that, you can click link to test yours

this was my results

New Zealand

You are an adventurous individual who enjoys being outdoors and spending time being active. You are a risk taker and have no problem striking up a conversation with a total stranger. When you travel you love to get to know the locals, and their customs, and are always up for a challenge. You thrive in a culture where others share your deep appreciation for land, and believe life is best lived outdoors. You love a hard hike, but also love the water and are happy to spend a day beach side. You thrive in a society with diversity and appreciate a simpler way of living. You are keen of learning about cultures and customs that are different than your own, and enjoy a deep conversation, whether it be philosophical or spiritual. You are not a city dweller by any means, and definitely believe that life is something to explore and experiencye firsthand. This country gives you endless opportunities to live both an active lifestyle and enjoy the company of new found friends.

fefeeling retis konon *euwhh* di Glenorchy, Queenstown

so,regarding the personality listed, hmmmm i'm not quite sure whether it is me they're describing. i just want to highlight on the country that fits me. yawww! its NEW ZEALAND!! i'm beyond flattered!!

3 years ago,  i went to New Zealand with my cousins. Though it was only 8 days trip, i fall in love so deeply to this country. Mother nature just mesmerized and leaved me in awe till now, as i've said to myself, some pieces of my heart were left in Queenstown and one day i shall come again and take it back *dramaQueen*

Yallz , don't be fooled by it's size. There is so much thing to do in this country, from the awe inspiring scenery and cosmopolitan cities, to the fascinating indigenous culture and the long list of adrenalin pumping activities, ahhhh, i love this country so much more!

i left some pieces of my heart there, so insyaallah, one day, i'll come back to pick em up, dengan future-husband-wherever-you-are and my little family, ececehh

cheers!

the Complexity of love

The truth is that the more intimately you know someone, the more clearly you'll see their flaws. That's just the way it is. That is why marriages fails, why children are abandoned, why friendships don't last. You might think you love someone until you see the way they act when they're out of money or under pressure or hungry, for goodness' sake. Love is something different. Love is choosing to serve someone and be with someone in spite of their filthy heart. Love is patient and kind, love is deliberate. Love is hard. Love is pain and sacrifice, it's seeing the darkness in another person and defying the impulse to jump ship.

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Nothing protects the heart like patience. Don't get your hopes up too fast. Don't let your fears speak too loud. Don't give your doubts too much time. Not everybody is built to handle the rough times. Can't be surprised when you fall off with certain people. Few people understand what it means to really be there for somebody.

And that's the roughest part about being on a journey, you realize the main ones that they'll ride, are the first to fall off. People make promises when the sun is shining and make excuses when the storm comes. That's why I'm always thankful for the rain. it washes away the unnecessary.

The reality is, you could be amazing, genuine, and sincere but still be overlooked. Because honestly people don't want something real anymore, they just want reasons to complain and excuses to avoid. Having good thing is so hard because meeting a strong person is so rare. So, I've learned to respect when people run from me, I realize my kind of love aint for everybody. I'm at peace with that

the horse riding experience : AMAZEBALLSSSS

Ahoj! so, semalammmm, me, k umol, k kirin, qiela and kak teah. best gilerrrrr!!!!!! one bucket list off! aaa i enjoyed every minutes of it!! nak tunggang kuda lagiii

Me and Nigella (Niggy) yang degil hahaha

It was truly a magical day, unlike anything i'd ever experience (haha over excited sangat ni), and i was certainly glad that this day has come, trying something new is always overwhelming. Horse riding is so much fun, even for beginners like me, riding through dense jungle, it was a unique adventure i'll never forget.

The truth was, like all new experiences, though i'm overexcited with adrenaline activities, i was slightly afraid of the unknown, and whilst I did enjoy the company of horses. The horse trail ride was wonderful mix of beauty, wildlife, smells and what views!!!! Subhanallah, Alhamdulillah, i can't thank Him enough for this experience! T_T

i loved the feeling of being on our own trail ride.... as supposed to a big long line, ... and it feels like we were on a 'real farm' , like in the LOTR movie!! wuwuwu

nak pergi lagi plzz, sangat best T_T definitely this will not be our last. 

exam maniac

'The reason why people give up so fast is that they tend to look at how far they still have to go, instead of how far they have gotten'

This happens to everyone and we need to realize that not everything will come easy in life. In order to gain something you have to work hard, you have to keep trying , you have to keep yourself motivated that you CAN do it. insyaAllah and the most importantly, is to have faith in Allah. If we look at how far we've gotten we'd realize how much we've actually got done. There's no point of worrying about what's ahead because it's going to cause nothing but stress and worries. Focus on now, focus on what you've done so far and you'll realize how happy you actually are with yourself Alhamdulillah.

Don't give up because the journey seems impossible, long or too hard. Nothing is impossible Fatimah Zaharah! No matter what happens, no matter how many times others put you down, no matter how many times you fall, always always get back up!! it may be hard, but who said life was easy?

Just remember, focus on how far you've come, Giving up now is worse. Don't do that! Promis yourself tht no matter what happens you won't give up, you will keep going and you can do it. insyaAllah! :)

'And whoever relies upon Allah and puts all His trust in Him, He will enough for Him' 

 Quran 65:3

ABLA

i have reached a point in my life where I no longer care if people I thought were going to stay, leave. I've learnt not to attach myself to anyone or anything and that my happiness depends solely on myself. That way, if I'm the only cause for my sadness I would be the only solution to my happiness