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'None of you will truly believe until you love for your brother what you love for yourself'

-Bukhari AlMuslim

Don't feel sad seeing someone smiling. Perhaps they are smiling through thousands of pains

Don't feel upset seeing a successful marriage. Perhaps they are trying hard to beat the odds in their lives.

Don't feel sad seeing others having kids. Perhaps they are sacrificing a lot to protect what they are only blessed with.

Don't feel upset seeing someone spending their leisure with joy. Perhaps that's the only break they had for themselves.

Don't feel annoyed hearing someone's laughter. Perhaps that's the only way for them to break the silence.

We don't know what happens behind curtains. Perhaps those people who try to show their smiles o the world don't want to make others cry for them

We don't know the trials they are facing with, so don't judge that they are showing off

We can't spend a hidden life. Our joys and sorrows will be identified by the world.

No one can hide a child they have fearing that it could hurt someone who doesn't have a child

No once can hide their wealth because someone else would hurt for not being blessed with wealth

No one can pretend to be sic knowing there could be someone suffering with an illness

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Everyone has their own package of trials. 

None can live for someone else's sake

They have to live the life they are assigned with

Pretending to live a life that they are not truly living is showing off

Besides their deeds are known by Allah alone.

Sharing happiness with others is not wrong

intending to inspire others is not a crime

Our duty is not to judge their deeds but to bless them to live happily forever

We might feel offended sometimes seeing someone screaming with joy while we are grieving for a loss

Just because we are sad it is not right to expect everyone to mourn

If we are expecting others to be sad along with us, then we must get prepared to be happy with ohters as well. 

That is the true spirit of a Muslim

'None of you will truly believe until you love for your brother what you love for yourself'