Nina sent me a link for fun today, just to test which country fits my personality, hehe but before that, you can click link to test yours this was my results
New Zealand
You are an adventurous individual who enjoys being outdoors and spending time being active. You are a risk taker and have no problem striking up a conversation with a total stranger. When you travel you love to get to know the locals, and their customs, and are always up for a challenge. You thrive in a culture where others share your deep appreciation for land, and believe life is best lived outdoors. You love a hard hike, but also love the water and are happy to spend a day beach side. You thrive in a society with diversity and appreciate a simpler way of living. You are keen of learning about cultures and customs that are different than your own, and enjoy a deep conversation, whether it be philosophical or spiritual. You are not a city dweller by any means, and definitely believe that life is something to explore and experiencye firsthand. This country gives you endless opportunities to live both an active lifestyle and enjoy the company of new found friends.
fefeeling retis konon *euwhh* di Glenorchy, Queenstown
so,regarding the personality listed, hmmmm i'm not quite sure whether it is me they're describing. i just want to highlight on the country that fits me. yawww! its NEW ZEALAND!! i'm beyond flattered!! 3 years ago, i went to New Zealand with my cousins. Though it was only 8 days trip, i fall in love so deeply to this country. Mother nature just mesmerized and leaved me in awe till now, as i've said to myself, some pieces of my heart were left in Queenstown and one day i shall come again and take it back *dramaQueen* Yallz , don't be fooled by it's size. There is so much thing to do in this country, from the awe inspiring scenery and cosmopolitan cities, to the fascinating indigenous culture and the long list of adrenalin pumping activities, ahhhh, i love this country so much more! i left some pieces of my heart there, so insyaallah, one day, i'll come back to pick em up, dengan future-husband-wherever-you-are and my little family, ececehh cheers!
The truth is that the more intimately you know someone, the more clearly you'll see their flaws. That's just the way it is. That is why marriages fails, why children are abandoned, why friendships don't last. You might think you love someone until you see the way they act when they're out of money or under pressure or hungry, for goodness' sake. Love is something different. Love is choosing to serve someone and be with someone in spite of their filthy heart. Love is patient and kind, love is deliberate. Love is hard. Love is pain and sacrifice, it's seeing the darkness in another person and defying the impulse to jump ship.
Nothing protects the heart like patience. Don't get your hopes up too fast. Don't let your fears speak too loud. Don't give your doubts too much time. Not everybody is built to handle the rough times. Can't be surprised when you fall off with certain people. Few people understand what it means to really be there for somebody.
And that's the roughest part about being on a journey, you realize the main ones that they'll ride, are the first to fall off. People make promises when the sun is shining and make excuses when the storm comes. That's why I'm always thankful for the rain. it washes away the unnecessary.
The reality is, you could be amazing, genuine, and sincere but still be overlooked. Because honestly people don't want something real anymore, they just want reasons to complain and excuses to avoid. Having good thing is so hard because meeting a strong person is so rare. So, I've learned to respect when people run from me, I realize my kind of love aint for everybody. I'm at peace with that
Ahoj! so, semalammmm, me, k umol, k kirin, qiela and kak teah. best gilerrrrr!!!!!! one bucket list off! aaa i enjoyed every minutes of it!! nak tunggang kuda lagiii
Me and Nigella (Niggy) yang degil hahaha
It was truly a magical day, unlike anything i'd ever experience (haha over excited sangat ni), and i was certainly glad that this day has come, trying something new is always overwhelming. Horse riding is so much fun, even for beginners like me, riding through dense jungle, it was a unique adventure i'll never forget.
The truth was, like all new experiences, though i'm overexcited with adrenaline activities, i was slightly afraid of the unknown, and whilst I did enjoy the company of horses. The horse trail ride was wonderful mix of beauty, wildlife, smells and what views!!!! Subhanallah, Alhamdulillah, i can't thank Him enough for this experience! T_T
i loved the feeling of being on our own trail ride.... as supposed to a big long line, ... and it feels like we were on a 'real farm' , like in the LOTR movie!! wuwuwu
nak pergi lagi plzz, sangat best T_T definitely this will not be our last.
'The reason why people give up so fast is that they tend to look at how far they still have to go, instead of how far they have gotten'
This happens to everyone and we need to realize that not everything will come easy in life. In order to gain something you have to work hard, you have to keep trying , you have to keep yourself motivated that you CAN do it. insyaAllah and the most importantly, is to have faith in Allah. If we look at how far we've gotten we'd realize how much we've actually got done. There's no point of worrying about what's ahead because it's going to cause nothing but stress and worries. Focus on now, focus on what you've done so far and you'll realize how happy you actually are with yourself Alhamdulillah.
Don't give up because the journey seems impossible, long or too hard. Nothing is impossible Fatimah Zaharah! No matter what happens, no matter how many times others put you down, no matter how many times you fall, always always get back up!! it may be hard, but who said life was easy?
Just remember, focus on how far you've come, Giving up now is worse. Don't do that! Promis yourself tht no matter what happens you won't give up, you will keep going and you can do it. insyaAllah! :)
'And whoever relies upon Allah and puts all His trust in Him, He will enough for Him'
i have reached a point in my life where I no longer care if people I thought were going to stay, leave. I've learnt not to attach myself to anyone or anything and that my happiness depends solely on myself. That way, if I'm the only cause for my sadness I would be the only solution to my happiness
'Don't fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. The saddest summary of life contains 3 descriptions ; could have, might have and should have' -Anonymous
that efffff word; Fear.
true that. Too often, we allow fear, worry, doubt to dominate and define our lives. We allow them to steal our joy, our sleep and our precious dream. so, I made up my mind, very young (25 is still considered young ok), that I would push forward no matter what.
If you want to know happiness and realize your dreams, you have to be willing to take a leap of faith, despite being afraid.
I am a girl with big dreams. I have so many things that I wish to do, I wish to achieve, I wish of so many things, my brain keep on manufacturing ideas, but deep down I fear of myself whether I could get to that point and achieve what I want. Too often we hold back and play it safe, in order to avoid becoming successful, feeling embarrassed, looking silly, being hurt and facing rejection or possible failure. and I have all that fear inside me.
We cling to fear from our childhood, traumatic experiences and the negative media, eg movies and even the laughter of our own friends of how absurd and ridiculous our dreams or wishes.
Now, I am struggling to acknowledge, face, dissolve and conquering my own fear!
Strategies to GET THERE!
1.Be positive. it's magic!
Make it dominant in your mind. You can't live a positive life with a negative mind. Positive thinking is not about expecting the best to happen, but accepting that whatever happens is the best for that moment. so keep calm and stay positive!
2. Encouragement from my family and friends.
Family can see the strength inside us when we forget that we have it. At my request, they don’t hesitate to remind me of all trials and triumphs we have come through. They’re generous with praise and encouragement. and I have tons of supportive friends that I treasure. I know, even though some of them are distance away, whispering du'a and prayers is one way of how we get connected.
3. Don't give time, attention, or energy to fear.
Fear, its poisonous mind, which was once an appropriate reaction to real and present danger, is now the reaction to any imagined negative outcome. Fear is mostly a product of OUR OWN IMAGINATIONS, almost always without any true basis in reality. We fear failure. We fear success. We fear the future. We fear the past. We fear possible scenarios with only a shred of evidence to lead us there. The more we think about what we fear, the more we feed the fear. Then fear begins to control us, limit us, and ultimately overtake us. Stop it! Be fearless!
4. Get comfortable with fear
Invite fear into life. When fearing something, move toward it. Feel it, and breathe through it. Do the things that frighten you. Action builds courage. keep reminding myself “This fear will pass.” Your world expands as your courage expands.
5. Live vicariously through the victories of other? No, from vicarious to VICTORIOUS LIVING! =)
So, by definition , vicarious means, 'indirect, surrogate, substitute' , so whooo wants to live a 'substitute' life? You wanna live your own life right?
Sometimes when i went through some fb photo comments, where people commenting ,'ohh i'm sitting here and live vicariously, through other people's adventure. I'm not saying that it's not good to say that; IT IS GOOD IF you are inspired and get off the couch, and just go after what you want, or achieve towards what you wish to experience. But if you just sitting in front of your lappy without doing nothing, that is not it!
i love inspiration. I believe it is important to the human spirit, like vitamins and supplements, which are essential to the human body. But unlike food, we must be able to internally generate at least portion of our recommended daily allowance of inspiration. Depend too much on external factors and we soon become dependent and addicted to outside sources as a shadow substitute.
“I’ve become inspired to have more adventure in my life, to get off the couch and go after what I want and live my life with gusto!”
I think i realized something in my life, something about the human experience. I think, specifically, we have a tendency to live through other people's stories rather that take the risk of having our own adventure. it implies to many expect. even in our journey of worshiping Allah.
It dawned on me that perhaps there are multiple reasons why people live vicariously. That perhaps there are good and bad reasons to do this. I have some reasons that implies in my life, my good reasons to enjoy the vicarious experience
...for example,
- to be happy for someone else, - i have so many supportive friends who are always happy when i did some crazy stuff. and i am beyond happy if they do the same as well. Sharing the feelings of being on top of the world is just mesmerizing and wonderful. i am grateful to have these precious friends.
-you're not ready to do it coz it's too extreme, and there's no way i'm going to ever try that :: yeahh i have these kinda feeling when i watch this video ;
Wingsuit flying ; giler tahap moksya
I completely admire the courage and their stupidity, (LOL) that drives these people to those extremes, but i know that i'm not going to do it anytime soon. I can enjoy a rush of adrenaline living the experience second hand, but not do it myself :P
-i physically can't do it. At this point in my life, i'm never going to be an Olympic gymnast or World Champion Badminton hahaha. Face the fact. i enjoy watching Lin Dan and Chong Wei on world stage, and Wong Mew Choo which is very known with her exceptional stamina, but face it Fatimah Zaharah, i am nowhere to that point. in my younger years, i didn't make the choice to dedicate my life to becoming an Olympian and the time has past for that but there's nothing wrong living it directly through the up and coming stars, right?
All those a great reasons to enjoy vicarious living, as long as you don't spend your whole life living vicariously and never step out to you own adventurous life. However, if you live your life through someone else's eyes for some of the reasons below, you may want to stop and think about where you're going in your own life
FEAR? hmm, back to the above points...
PROCRASTINATION?which probably comes back to fear in some sense. we used to say, hmm 'someday, or 'when i finish my uni' or 'when the kids are grown' or 'when i lose 2kg or 10 lbs' zzz, well , until you decide to decide, you'll never make a step closer and you'll forever be watching the video instead of making it
Take a look at the reasons why you live vicariously through others and be sure that you are doing it for the right reasons, as a motivator in your own life, not as an excuse. then, live victoriously! =)
6. Reflect. Give sometime to reflect
We often see the wrong of others and never have a single moment to think what we've done wrong. So many people never take the time examine themselves to see where they are making these life mistakes. So many mistakes done, but its not the end of the world. Allah knows our own struggle and acknowledge them, right?
Examine your fears under a magnifying glass. Break them down and study all of the parts. How much truth is there really in each fearful thing? What are the odds that the fearful thing will come to pass? Leave no fear un-probed, until you become bored with fear. Become practiced at seeing fear as a weak and capricious companion, only useful when you are dealing with reality.
Life experience has taught us to put our head in the sand when we don’t like what we see. If things look unpleasant, if people let us down, if we fail to meet expectations — we spend precious energy finding ways to obfuscate, hide, deny, and pretend. The painful truth seems too scary to face, so we wear ourselves down trying to avoid it.
Adventure is optional. although Allah has great plans for our life, He won't make us take a leap of faith to go on an adventure with him. and remind yourself, even though you want to be fearless, be FEARFUL to ALLAH, Fear only towards HIM.
