I am a woman in process. I'm just trying like everybody else. I try to take every conflict and learn from it I'm a person who is open to experience each stimulus, freely relayed through the nervous system, without being distorted by any process of defensive
Be brave. take risk in everything you do Nothing can substitute experience
To all women in the whole wide universe May your shinny and enthusiastic spirit be with you, always!!! Happy Women's Day =) #fighting!!
okes, abaikan benda atas yg mengarut tu. This poster posted in FB i found this morning caught my attention . Haha i was quite interested with the content of it. Overall i would say, raising a child is never an easy thing. The good education means the physical, mental and moral preparation of the child so he can become a good individual in the good society.
Allah (swt) has entrusted parents with their children. Parents bear the responsibility to raise their children in the Islamic way. If they do that they will be blessed in this life and in the Hereafter, and if they don't, they will get bad result during their life and in the Hereafter *gulpppppp*
Rasulullah saw resemble the best example of a loving father, a good leader of a family, an obedient child and so much more. As a future mother, I am glad that i'm in medical school, so i am fully expose upon this matter. During Histology class, i learned about the embryology and early development of human being in the mother's womb. However, Allah speaks about it in Holy Quran, about the stages of man's embryonic development. Next year, i'm going to have Pediatrics in 5th year, so, i'll be learning in depth about children *ngee*
Honestly, when it comes to theory, i might have some knowledge about children's development and psychology, but practically on the other hand, i'm so ZERO!!! haha. I have a little brother, who was born when I was 11. So, I used to be beside ibu, helping her out, taking care of my little brother eg cleaning up his diapers, feed him, bathing him. *baik kan kakak kau ni Nudin* So,boleh la nak kata yang i have a very basic skills of baby care.
In a nutshell, from what i can extract from above, the upbringing of a children begins in the early childhood, and continue throughout the teenage years.
A mum's job is a 24/7 job okes!!!! Bare that in mind timahh..
So, secara konklusinya....
Physically...
-feed the children with halal and healthy food,
-encourage the practice of sports eg swimming, archery, horse-riding, wrestling <-- basically these are the sports according to sunnah Rasulullah saw
mentally and morally..
-approach our children with love and tenderness, as the quotes saying, 'mother's touch soothe the soul' , make more physical contact, especially during the newborn period. The health of a newborn baby is HIGHLY DEPENDENT ON RECEIVING THE TOUCH OF THEIR MOTHER. patutlah baby kurang menangis bila ada orang sekeliling especially bila ada ibunya, they cry less and helps them sleep better
-teach the religious principle at early age. From the age of 5, teach the children on how to pray, encourage them to fast, but at the same time , explain why do they have to do it. Explain and make them understand that Solat prayer and fasting in Ramadhan month are a way of showing our love to Allah. Let them know more about Allah through story-telling about sahabat, angels, Prophet's stories and so on.
-be a good listener. Act as a 'friend' to our children rather than continue in the role of a teacher, as suggested by Prophet Muhammad saw
-teach them how to read at early phase; baby starts to speak generally at the age of 2, so da boleh ajar-ajar alif, ba, ta daa. Let them imitate your speech and repeat over and over again. At the age of 5, teach them to read Muqaddam and Quran. Children is the fastest learner of all in the whole wide world. So, encourage them to memorize simple surah and continue to surah2 juzu' amma during this age is the best timing. So true thou, i've been trying to memorize simple surah in Juzu' amma, and it took ages! *banyak dosa dengdengdengg*
-expose children to many kinds of interest, which enable their mental growth ; for example touring and travelling, language, music . Specifically as for boys, gardening, mechanic things, computer ; and as for girls, cooking, home-cleaning.
-let them take in charge of some task, to develop sense of responsibilities. At the same time, never let them doing it alone, supervise and guide them from time to time.
-teach children to select the good company and avoid the bad ones, because children are alwayssssss influenced by their friend.
-and one last thing, encourage and expose the children to sympathize with Muslim problems. Tell them about what happen in Palestine for example, and what can we do to contribute to the solutions eg making du'a and encourage them to donate some money to hungry Muslim children. Let them feel the sense of belonging to the Muslim nation. They will feel the brotherhood between Muslims, care more for Muslims in any land, and feel that they are part of the Muslim body, to feel sad for Muslim's sadness, to feel happy when Muslim are joyous and to strive their best to achieve the Muslim nation's goals.
banyak lagi, i know. takda idea.
now i can imagine how ibu and ayah raised me up since i was a little baby. I'm so glad to have the best parents in the whole wide universe. So, dari sekarang lagi i need to learn more and more, continuously making du'a, change my bad attitude and behavior. Nak jadi ibu yang baik, setting up a good practical example, because children like to imitate their parents in their sayings and deeds.
Antara doa-doa parenting yg boleh kita amalkan:
Doa nabi zakaria 3:38
At that, Zechariah called upon his Lord, saying, ' My Lord, grant me from Yourself a good offspring. Indeed, You are the Hearer of supplication
Doa dapat zuriat penyejuk mata memandang 25:74
And those who say, 'Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous
How could Muhammad saw have possibly known all this 1400 years ago when scientist have only recently discovered this using advanced equipment and powerful microscopes which did not exist at the time? #deep
ok, i have to rush to fac now. PHARMACO mode is ON!!
Allah selamatkan Siti Shafarwati, Allah selamatkan kamu
May Allah shower His countless blessings upon you!
Things i'll remember most out of her
-she's like a police woman, whenever she is around you, you can feel her own aura and she'll definitely fight for whats right even though people disagree with her. #admire
-she is a tough young girl. She is good in Silat martial arts. I always tried to attack her at random times, but she managed to defend herself. hahaha
-She is a calm person. Seriously saying, kalau berada dengan siti bila time gelabah-gelabah, sure boleh turun balik heart pressure. She knows exactly the words to calm people around her
-sensitive -even though she looks cold outside, but she is very sensitive girl. awwwh
-Fearless. Standing up for yourself isn't always easy especially if the world is against you. but she's a law-abiding, haha
To kill time, we pranked Sal on her special day. Sikit je, main shower-shower tepung. hehe
Happy birthday Salsabiila again!
i'm pretty sure she'll gonna remember this throughout her life. hehhe. Still,sorry la eh prank awk, baik je si sal ni, kesian awk, haha serba salah la jugak kenakan awk yg innocent ni.
Ana uhibbukifillah sal!
sal da macam super sayya, aiseh aku pun kena kejar kawkaw
MASTERMIND : AMIL, HARRY
ME? : saya menurut perintah *pentipuu* haha
detik detik pranking sal. wakakaka, pecah perut gue gelak time ni
the culprits
well anyway dearie, moga panjang umur, murah rezeki, and never give up ok.
May Allah shower His countless blessings upon you!
Last saturday, we had Explorace event. CALORIES DEFICIT CALORIES DEFICIT! hoboi, it was totally amusing!!Best giler!! Last year, i was helping out for one of the checkpoint with adi and ros, but this year, its my time to shine! wohooooo! overexcited yeahh i know!
anyway, this is my groupmates, GROUP 2, ULTRAMAN, with the proud slogan,
GOMO ULTRAMAN GOMO! #LOL
dari kiri (gadis2) : me, kak linah, arina, k temah (belakang), siti (depan), kak muni (belakang)
jejaka2 : paan, amil ,kathi (vj)
haha tengok tu gambar, da ada gaya menang da kitorang kan,
muahahaha *berlagak, blh tampar sekarang*
There were 10 checkpoints all together, and each checkpoint will be given 2clues : clues to the next checkpoint and if the task in the checkpoint is completed, we will get the clues to get to the final checkpoint.
so here goes the checkpoints (group 2 routes)
1. vystaviste flora (green hut)
2. astronomical clock (picture of the paintings on the walls)
3. botanicka zahrada (german language)
4. library (300 degree from the tram stop)
5. omega (ohm ohm ohm)
6. nadrazi mesto (children fly up to the sky, flower building)
7. ukovarni (trampoline, futsal)
8. letiste belakang neredin (the proud bird of the golden tail)
9. Globus
10. fakultni nemocnice (math countings)
These are the tasks at the checkpoints that i can recall
1. vystaviste flora (arnold, tiqa, nisa) 2 tasks :
*MULTIPLICATION game* the questions is repeated 3 times by Arnold , and we have to provide the answers as soon as he finished questioning the 3rd times.
~berkarat otak dah lama tak main sifir. i got multiple 9 ones, fuhhh, jerit teross bila dia ulang yg kali ke 3!!
*MAKAN NASI GARAM without making any facial expression. AT ALL!
~ the rice actually comes with different flavours for each group; garam/gula/masam etc
our group dapat nasi garam. kesian kak muni sampai nk termuntah-muntah dia
2.Astronomical clock (qiela, ely, fateen)
*pop quiz, general questions about centrum in Olomouc.We were required to answer 10 questions, the clue was ,anything about centrum.
-I am old, and I had a farm. Who am I? MCDONALD
-The air is for the rich and the sea is not for the impatient.But either one is up to you. Mind you, i am just going to where you want me to go.So dont blame the delivery guy if you got the address wrong C.POSTA
-I used to be a Roman General before. But now I like to cook and open a new restaurant in Olomouc?
can you guess what is the name of my restaurant? CAESAR
-in nominative form, my name basically means white. but it is funny, really, that i'm actually yellow and red
BILLA
-how much is the cost of ___ * i cant recall the name of the food* in cinska restaurant
-how many floors does Terranova have? 3
-Bricks in singular? BATA
-I used to hear people screaming, singing and even scolding me. I always confuse and asked why must it
happened to me? could you tell me what am I? OPERA/MORAVSKE DIVADLO
-I am a rooster. Usually, in Malaysia, they let me be on the ground and I can play all day long. But here in
Olomouc there put me high up to the sky. I am working and I love it. Do you know where i work?
ASTRONOMICAL CLOCK
-what is the telephone no of CASTELLO restaurant?
-The meaning of my name is castle in Latin. But in Malaysia many people will talk about Rosyam Nor if
hear my name. In Olomouc they love to eat my cooking. Can you guess what is my name? CASTELLO
~for this checkpoint, we managed to finish in about 5mins, kak Linah lari semangat nak mencari no telefon Castello tu. bgus giler kak LINAH!! leader terbaikkkk
3.Botanicke Zahrada, (sara, jac, mag)
*DSLR for DUMMIES. we have to choose a card which written a name of the group member.There were only 2 cards and we have to pick one. The card that we picked was written Kak Timah's name. hahha kesian kak timah. Kak Timah said she doesnt know how to set DSLR camera. thats exactly the purpose for the game. They picked 'DSLR dummies' for the game. hahhaha. Kak Timah will have to set the timer on her own. If they found the group members are helping ,there will be some punishment. haha , sara,jac and mag warned us again and again 'Ingat, every action comes with consequences' = = but finally, kak timah did a great job. We have to choose the background and set ourselves the arrangement and stuff. but all in all, the task i can say quite an easy one :P
4.LIBRARY (izat, yana, ikram)
MATHEMATIC, zzz , they gave us numericals and symbols, calculate and find our own formula to get the answer 1. yeyy alhamdulillah, i got it! (5x3x2\6) -4 , then ,square root equals to 1! tengok group before, dorang kena denda conteng dekat muka,hehehe
5.OMEGA (haziq, vera,zuen)
SKIPPING, TWISTER, BLOWING THE FLOUR GAME/TONGUE TWISTER. haha this station sangat kelakaaaaaa, pecah perut gelak tengok aksi dorang! each group need to send 8 contestant. 4 girls and 4 boys. Pick a card which written a number. That number will determine how many rounds for the twist part. The task for girls is ,skipping and twist and read a text of tongue twister . For boys, they have to do the skipping + twister + blowing the flour.
~ since our group consist of only 3boys, i was asked to join the boys group. pergh, sekali aku tak tahan nak pergi tandas. so i run to Omega menyambut seruan alam. ingat balik sempat buat, unfortunately amil replaced me. Kesian dia, da macam epilepticus seizure daaa lps kena twist berapa kali ntah. tapi this station was the funniest ones!
6. NADRAZI MESTO (fana, aidil, aeisyah yazeedah)
TELEPATHY. 4 persons will play, 2 in each round. both will put on a headphone throughout the game. There are 2 sides with 10 pieces of cards, written on a random question , and the other side, 10 pieces of cards written a random answer. Player A will read a question and Player B will choose an answer that might suits to the question given by Player A . Basically both of the players wont be able to listen to one another because loud head-banging songs will be played during the game.
~this game was hilarious. I played with arina. I did the questioning part and she answered me. We basically have good telepathy and chemistry coz most of the questions that i've given, she could managed to answer it correctly. Amil and paan played the 2nd round. so funny. i remember this one question Paan asked amil, who teaches anatomy? Amil answered : Tok Mudim =='hahaha apakah tok mudim ajar anat haha
hehe, today, i substituted the practical that i missed yesterday with him. He taught me on how to read the patients medical record. wow i was quite impressed with how the system works here. Everything will be computerized. Making your life as a medical officer much much easier.
I haven't start revising Neuro yet. i'm far behind than the others. I need to get rid of this Pharm paper out of the way. hoh! i can do this! Tiket da beli timah kan, booster2!! go go go you can do it timahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!
p/s : tomorrow we're gonna have explorace and family day on the following day. Gosh i need to steal some time and revise!! *poyonye!*
